It is the fact that we have all lived without the notion that every decision and every attitude has grave CONSEQUENCES. The Berlin Wall did not just fall down , it was the end of a process of protests. The Roman Empire did not fall suddenly. No, it became more weaker and more corrupt. These are great examples that illustrate the smaller collapses in families and in people’s lives. Families and marriages are not destroyed by the big mistakes, no, it is the small decision and small attitude where what holds people together; good faith and confidence, where these erode over time until the final fall seems sudden and dramatic, nobody thinks about the months and years where attitudes are forgiven until unbelief and mistrust are the scabs of mortal wounds ready to haemorrhage their last. Consequences come, but consequences are the end of an erosion of truth and integrity!